Let me just say it: grad photos aren’t about looking like everyone else on your feed.

They’re about capturing you—your style, your vibe, your energy as you step into whatever’s next. And while your cap and gown can make an appearance, they don’t have to be the main character.

In fact, some of my favorite galleries don’t include a single cap.

So if you’re wondering what to wear for your graduation session (especially if you’re not a dress person, or you don’t want your photos to feel stiff or too staged), this is the guide for you.

Here’s how to plan a grad photo wardrobe that feels fun, personal, and camera-ready, without feeling like you have to try too hard.

First: Wear What Makes You Feel Like You

Seriously. This is the hill I will forever die on.

You do not need to wear a white dress if that’s not your thing. You do not need to wear heels if you know they’ll just hurt your feet. You do not need to wear anything that feels “off” just because it’s what you saw someone else post.

The best photos happen when you feel comfortable and confident. That shows up way more than whatever trend is going around.

My Favorite Outfit Formula: One Elevated + One Personal

Most of my grad sessions include time for at least two outfits, which I highly recommend. Variety makes your gallery so much more fun to scroll through (and you don’t have to commit to just one vibe).

Here’s the formula I recommend:

  • Outfit 1: Elevated. Think classic. Chic. Something timeless that would still look good in 10 years. This could be a satin midi dress, a structured jumpsuit, or a blazer + mini combo that feels sophisticated without being boring.
  • Outfit 2: Personal. This is where your personality gets to shine. Maybe it’s a pop of color, your favorite statement earrings, or your go-to outfit you always get compliments on. Maybe it’s the jeans and sneakers you wore to every 8 a.m. lecture. It should feel familiar to you.

Skip the Busy Prints

Prints can be tricky in photos—especially really small or really bold ones. The camera sometimes picks them up weirdly, or they distract from your face. If you love a good print, go for one with contrast and movement (like a floral maxi), and balance it out with more neutral tones in the rest of your look.

Solid colors, textures, and layers almost always photograph beautifully.

Bring Accessories That Feel Intentional

Accessories can absolutely elevate your look or tell a story. I love when grads bring:

  • Statement jewelry (without being distracting)
  • Cultural items (scarves, sashes, jewelry, etc.)
  • A bag or book that reflects something about your major or identity

These little touches go a long way—and help your photos feel even more personal.

Yes, Shoes Matter

We’re probably walking. And your shoes will show up in a lot of the photos.

If you’re wearing heels, make sure you can walk in them comfortably for at least 15–20 minutes. I always recommend packing a pair of cute flats or sneakers to change into between shots if needed. And definitely wipe down your soles before your session—especially if we’re photographing on campus or in the city.

What About the Cap + Gown?

You can bring it. You don’t have to wear it.

If you want it in your gallery, here’s what I recommend:

  • Don’t put it on until we need it
  • Fold or steam it ahead of time (they wrinkle fast)
  • Use it creatively—draped over the shoulder, thrown in the air, or holding it in your hands

You get to decide how much of a role it plays.

Bonus Tip: Try On Everything Beforehand

Sounds obvious, but you’d be surprised how many grads show up with something they haven’t worn since freshman year.

Try everything on. Move around in it. Sit, stand, spin. Make sure you feel like you in it—and that nothing needs last-minute adjusting.

And don’t forget to cut off any tags or stickers on shoes and accessories. Yes, it shows.

TL;DR: You Deserve to Feel Good in These Photos

You worked hard for this moment.

You deserve photos that celebrate this milestone and make you feel confident without the pressure to look like everyone else.

My job is to help you feel like your best self from the second you show up.

So whether you’re pulling out the heels or keeping it casual—you can’t go wrong as long as it’s true to you.

Got questions? Want help picking your outfits before your session? That’s part of the experience too. Just say the word.

NYC and NC grads—I’m currently booking for upcoming sessions. If you want first dibs on available dates (plus extra styling tips), make sure you’re on my email list.

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